Bondage - Doubling the Pleasure

In sex, men and women had been very creative when it comes to celebrating the primary urges. Through the years, aside from the proliferation of toys and sex gadgets to help consummate the sexual act, there developed a certain sexual ritual now known simply as bondage Australia.

Basically, this is a type of erotic play enjoyed by both partners during sex and the simple exercise of restraining someone (either partner) during the act. Typically, one is on top and the other is at the bottom. Here, consent is very important where both partners agree to playing certain roles. 

Role power

In movies and other entertainment media, women are often depicted playing the role of the bottom. In reality, to make things more exciting, both partners always have the option of switching roles.

The appeal of this role playing during sexual intercourse has been attributed to people playing control and power to either partner. Someone bound and blindfolded gets so excited on the many prospects that the other partner will do during the act.

The practice is actually based on the many fantasies of the partners over and above the simple sexual act. There are physical sensations at play, even some pain, which can either be cathartic or sexually pleasurable to both.

Gadgets and equipments

From the name themselves, a beginner would know what they are meant for when used during the act. Some of the common items include leather and fabric cuffs, shackles and chains, handcuffs, ankle spreaders, ropes, nipple and clit clamps, cages, and suspension devices like slings and swings.

There are other equipments and devices that go with the practice. There are now many pieces of furniture in use for these.

These pieces of sex furniture act as aids to the sexual activity. Aside from the typical bed, there are specially made couches and sofas that elevate or focus the genital areas.

The others include devices for spanking (Berkley horse) sex swings, sex gliders, angled foam wedges and pillows, and the famous love chair (no longer available from makers). Saw horses like those used in carpentry are sat on to get the feeling of a crotch rope in bondage.

Light versions

Things like a bondage tape and furry cuffs are good starting points, especially for beginners. There are also mouth gags that can prevent one partner from speaking. There are many ways where partners overwhelm the other’s senses (smell, touch, etc.)

Hoods add anticipation in the bedroom when a partner is blindfolded. There is also what they consider as mental bondage. Instead of physically restraining the other, you require your partner to stay in position by sheer will power.

Safety

Responsible practitioners place great importance when it comes to safety, which can be lost during extreme moments of pleasure. Those using gags have developed the communications (certain words or action) where one partner can tell the other to stop or slow down.

Bondage, as a sexual alternative is definitely exciting and brings in double the pleasure to people who want more out of their usual sexual practices.