Anal Sex Toys - Start Slow, Slim and Small

Sex toys, particularly anal sex toys Australia were all developed by a mix of experimentation, trials and errors and some spot-on intuition, usually coming from the users themselves. By nature, people are inclined to try new things.

The development of sex toys for use as an extra sexual aid in achieving orgasm coincided with the development (and maybe some discovery) of some of the things that can excite sexual performance. The move is simply done with sexual toys used on erogenous zones.

For newcomers and beginners, the warnings were scant that it takes sometime to warm up to them. However, they were created for only one purpose: to give pleasure to the user.  

Anal sex

The main rule for anal sex is only one thing – that it should be pleasurable. There are many references and books on these and there are many models of the sex toy. Most can tell if the user is an amateur or an experienced one.

Like a true trooper, the best option is to explore things and sensations to be able to come up with the conclusion on whether to use them or discard them. The rule is to follow the three most important components of anal play: relaxation, lubrication and communications.

Relaxation

Per medical findings, there are two separate muscles in the rectum that are a quarter-inch apart from each other. The external muscle can be controlled by the user. The internal rectal muscles are involuntarily controlled (like breathing, heart pumping blood, for instance, and which you do not have any conscious control).

When the person is relaxed, this set of muscles is also relaxed. The combined effects of stress, anxiety and worry can make your rectal muscles tighten unconsciously or involuntarily with no control from you whatsoever. The result is less pleasure and can even lead to the unpleasant possibility of pain.

Lube creams

Lubrication creams can sometimes be misleading for the user. One has to be careful on this. There are many numbing creams on the market. The promise is that they can make the anus less sensitive and the mistaken notion that it can lessen the pain.

For one thing, they cannot help the muscles to relax. They can make it more difficult to notice the uncomfortable sensations which can also lead to irritation or damage. Learning how to relax is much better in the long run.

Stimulation

One can try stimulating the outside of the rectum first. Getting turned on is one great relaxing trigger. Many people also enjoy vibrating sensations. If you want to insert a finger or a toy, always allow the receiver (your partner) control how deep and how fast should the penetration be.

One can start with something slim and never force or rush things. First-time anal players need to get used first to these feelings, especially the sex toys you will put in later. The slower things can go, the better it is.

On the whole, thicker lubrications generally work better to cushion sensitive tissues. Talking to your partner is important. Check each others comfort and sensations. Introducing the anal sex toys Australia will be easier by then.