Sex Toys – What They Can Do

For the most part, sex toys Australia are a big help when it comes to having orgasms in the absence of a sexual partner when you want it.  These toys can sometimes achieve better results than what a partner can do sexually.

They might be man-made devices with that straightforward goal of making you achieve the heights of your sexual pleasure on your own. However, these devices can work the best ways it had been designed if you knew its capabilities.

They sometimes come with few instructions. You need to know what it can do aside from what people tell you, or what you had imagined. The following are some tips for beginners, written for women, on how to use a sex toy like a vibrator, for instance.  

Knowing them

These days, a sex toy such as the popular vibrator usually doesn’t have many instructions with them except probably how to charge and re-charge them. If they are the battery type, you are only told the types you need to buy, etc.  

Some might tell the intensities of its power, the types of uses, and how to adjust things in the gadget to make it work better. With or without these, you still need to explore how your gadget works before using it. Today’s models are the best in years because of the many things it can do for you.

Checking out

Get to know your toy the moment you take it out of the box.  If the power is on, check out the buttons and the switches for the settings and the other features. You need to wash your toy before using them (turn off the power) and be careful not to wet the parts that should not be wet.

Inspect for sharp edges or seams and file out any sharp little unnecessary points or edges. Check out the wires and the batteries. They have to be working. If there are flaws, you return your vibrator intact and unused as it is.

On your own

Before you plan using your device together with your partner, it is best you work it out first on your own. This will make you less conscious which, in turn, can help you focus on how it should feel.

Find yourself sometimes to get acquainted with your toy. If you have roommates or children, thin walls in your place, or neighbors, put on some music. You can also make use of your blankets or comforters to drown out the sound of your toy. (You can also get a quieter vibrator.)

Tests

Play your vibrator for speed, starting from low to higher settings as you also explore how if feels on your skin. (If too strong at first, use some feel dampener like a towel. You would know which of your body part need higher speeds and those areas that are okay with lower speeds.

    

Check out how much pressure you need on which part. The stronger you hold it, the more the pressure gets absorbed by the hand. You can always experiment on how much pressure you need to hold onto your clitoris, your nipples, or the insides of your thighs.

Sex toys Australia need not intimidate you but they should work the way they’re made.

Sex Shop – The Evolution

Simply stated, a sex shop Australia is a store that sells adult items that are all considered sex gadgets. These devices are actually used to pleasure oneself (mostly by women) or can be actually used during the actual sexual intercourse with a partner. The best-selling items these days are dildos, vibrators, clitoral stimulators and other masturbation aids.

The precursors of these stores were the old brick-and-mortar stores actually existing in some obscure parts of the city where customers surreptitiously go to buy these sex devices. Customers then were varied, but in those days, they were mostly males. (Unofficially, females are said to outnumber male customers these days in online shops 5 to 1.)

Customers were varied, but most are adults. The youngsters are slowly coming in, now that online shopping has made invisible virtually all customers. The items fro sales are still all sex gadgets and devices used for enhancing the sexual experience, singly or with a partner.

Older days

Before, these shops were the subjects of derision and even outright attacks from moral crusaders from some churches and other religious organizations. Sex was viewed as something not to be tampered with. Women customers of these stores were considered harlots.

However, local moral crusaders lost their influence with the onslaught of progress, easy spread of information and open discussions. By then, adult shops started to sprout in progressive countries like the U.K., Australia, Japan, the U.S. and Germany among others).

At present, these so-called erotic shops are doing brisk business selling sex toys and gadgets and other accessories used in the enhancement of the sex experience. The first gadgets were for women, although the men’s stuff was made since the 80s.

Digital age

When everything went digital in technology and elsewhere, and the Internet was born, the attitude towards sex and the things about it started to become liberalized. It was not long after that men and women flaunt their views and actions without consulting the so-called moral elders.

The main view is to enjoy sex like it should be, and more and more sex toys were also made (and sold) with shops going online with their trade. Soon, the business boomed and sales of these items skyrocketed.

Items

The best-selling merchandise are those that deal mostly with solo pleasuring plus some that are enjoyed by both partners in the sexual act. The customers were more overwhelmingly women who are into pleasuring themselves without any partner.

Now, there are many items geared for men and they do brisk business as well. The other items that do well are the accessories (lubes, lotions, oils, soaps, etc.) which go hand in hand with the sex toys in most instances.

The shops have evolved in many ways in dealing with customers and about their business in general. Packages are wrapped in ordinary wrappers, and credits cards used to purchase the items are treated with the utmost secrecy, fully automated with no persons involved.

The sex shop Australia of old has come a long way to become a success today.

Sex Shop – Still Doing Brisk Business

A sex shop today had been derived from the older euphemistically named adult shop. Both are alike because both sell adult items that are mostly sex gadgets and toys used for enhancing the sex act with a partner, or more for self pleasuring or masturbation.

Where before there were mostly men customers for these shops (when they were real brick-and-mortar establishments), today’s count is a balance of men and women customers. The main reason is that these shops are now selling their wares online and customers can be anonymous.

It is not a puzzle therefore in finding that today’s best selling sex toys are those gadgets used by women like dildos, clitoral stimulators, and vibrators.

Looking back

Things were not as they are today in the past when these shops were the main objects of attacks from religious crusaders and the church. Sex was viewed as God-given and any tampering is the work of the devil. Enhancing sexual satisfaction is one of them.

When local moral crusaders lost their influence and attitudes have changed, adult shops started to sprout in more progressive cities around the world.  All were selling devices and gadgets all related to sexual pleasuring.

Modern times

When digital technology came in and the Internet became a reality, attitude towards sex and other related things have become more liberal. The adult shops are now plying their trade online (as most other businesses are). The plus point in online selling is customer anonymity, fitting perfectly with what these shops are selling.

The business of selling toys and gadgets for the enhanced enjoyment of sex, even for solo purposes, are best served by these shops. The reasons are two-fold. First, the attitude is now relaxed (even if discretion has to be practiced still) and secondly, online selling practices anonymity for the customer.

Discreet business

Discretion is the best part in the business because in online transactions, customers can be made “invisible” and that their privacy is protected. Delivery of the actual good is packaged in ordinary paper with no one knowing what is in these packages.

The sex shop are now doing brisk business in selling these sex toys and the bulk of the customers are the women. Not to discount men (and others of indeterminate sexual preferences), the sex devices men mostly use are also in the upswing in the sales market.

 

Currently, adult shops are now doing brisk business selling sex toys, gadgets, and other sexual accessories in connection with the sexual enjoyment. Since the 80’s there are more and more of these devices being made, if not originals, then versions of the best-selling ones.

In time with the Internet commerce, the demand for sex toys as sold by adult shops catering to these kinds of devices have grown tremendously due to many factors. First is the anonymity factor when doing business with these shops. Secondly, the permissive atmosphere took over and many young people are also drawn to it.

However, real sex shop are still around even if their online counterparts are doing very good business. Surprisingly, they are patronized by young people as well.

Adult Shop Online - Fingertips Shopping

Clearly a product of its time, an adult shop online has sported several names before in its colorful history throughout the years. Variously called sex shops, online sex shop, sex toys shop, these other names are as well-known as its present label.

In all its time of existence selling toys for sexual enhancements, the only meaningful change might be that they are also present now in a new bigger venue, online at the Internet. In real terms, they are not any different from the older brick and mortar retail stores (and those still around) offering the same merchandise.

Items

All of them cater to the same set of customers and all of their available merchandise is related to sex, the enjoyment of the sex act, pleasuring oneself or with a partner, and the enjoyment of the many other variations of the sexual act. 

These shops mostly carry everything for sale, although there are now shops with favored specialties and items. The clientele is actually everyone (everyone does sex) either as couples or singles, or even as groups. Aside from pure sexual items, they also carry other items related to the others (lubricants, etc.).

For women

Women comprise most of the customers of these shops. The vibrators are among the top-sellers, outselling every sex product for women or for men. The top favorite still seems to be the rabbit vibrators and its derivatives or variations.

Some versions have been renovated and remodeled (bending) to give deeper better penetration into women’s vaginas. Other items can simultaneously stimulate the clitoris while doing vaginal penetration.

The good old dildos and clitoral stimulators are still raking it in, meaning they have not lost their appeal to the customers. The other best sellers include the pocket rocket, the vibrating egg, and the screaming O.

For men

These online sex shops contend that the varieties of the sex gadgets for men may not be as numerous as those of the women but the sales they generate are quite as good. The top choices seem to be the cock rings with vibrators. Top sellers also include the fleshlights, butt plugs and even the old life-sized sex dolls.

The fleshlights have one with an opening to put the penis in and shaped like a woman’s vagina, lips or butt holes. The dolls, the prostate stimulators and penis pumps still have their fans and are still having good business.

For everyone

Some of the best-selling sex items are those that can be used by both men and women and those in-between. The best selling item at present are the lubes (lubricants) in many forms and combinations (oil, water based, etc.).

Also, they are mostly bought together with some other sex toys. The silicone based ones are the current favorites used in water plays, in the shower or in the tub. The others include bath and body treatments like oils, lotions and soaps.

The success of adult shop online is usually for reasons that you can flip pages online for the things you want, including inspecting the merchandise carefully, and read the reviews. 

Bondage - Doubling the Pleasure

In sex, men and women had been very creative when it comes to celebrating the primary urges. Through the years, aside from the proliferation of toys and sex gadgets to help consummate the sexual act, there developed a certain sexual ritual now known simply as bondage Australia.

Basically, this is a type of erotic play enjoyed by both partners during sex and the simple exercise of restraining someone (either partner) during the act. Typically, one is on top and the other is at the bottom. Here, consent is very important where both partners agree to playing certain roles. 

Role power

In movies and other entertainment media, women are often depicted playing the role of the bottom. In reality, to make things more exciting, both partners always have the option of switching roles.

The appeal of this role playing during sexual intercourse has been attributed to people playing control and power to either partner. Someone bound and blindfolded gets so excited on the many prospects that the other partner will do during the act.

The practice is actually based on the many fantasies of the partners over and above the simple sexual act. There are physical sensations at play, even some pain, which can either be cathartic or sexually pleasurable to both.

Gadgets and equipments

From the name themselves, a beginner would know what they are meant for when used during the act. Some of the common items include leather and fabric cuffs, shackles and chains, handcuffs, ankle spreaders, ropes, nipple and clit clamps, cages, and suspension devices like slings and swings.

There are other equipments and devices that go with the practice. There are now many pieces of furniture in use for these.

These pieces of sex furniture act as aids to the sexual activity. Aside from the typical bed, there are specially made couches and sofas that elevate or focus the genital areas.

The others include devices for spanking (Berkley horse) sex swings, sex gliders, angled foam wedges and pillows, and the famous love chair (no longer available from makers). Saw horses like those used in carpentry are sat on to get the feeling of a crotch rope in bondage.

Light versions

Things like a bondage tape and furry cuffs are good starting points, especially for beginners. There are also mouth gags that can prevent one partner from speaking. There are many ways where partners overwhelm the other’s senses (smell, touch, etc.)

Hoods add anticipation in the bedroom when a partner is blindfolded. There is also what they consider as mental bondage. Instead of physically restraining the other, you require your partner to stay in position by sheer will power.

Safety

Responsible practitioners place great importance when it comes to safety, which can be lost during extreme moments of pleasure. Those using gags have developed the communications (certain words or action) where one partner can tell the other to stop or slow down.

Bondage, as a sexual alternative is definitely exciting and brings in double the pleasure to people who want more out of their usual sexual practices.

Bondage Toys and Sex Furniture - Best in Tandem

Bondage toys and sex furniture are actually good to work together in bondage couplings. There are, however, some obvious differences between the two categories which make them classified as those.  Bondage toys are smaller, and mostly portable. Some sex furniture piece can’t be carried by one man.

However, both of these categories of sex gadgets whether bondage toy or sex furniture has only one sole purpose – to enhance the sexual experience and make it more intense and thrilling.  In the old days, furniture pieces (called “erotic furniture”) are really an aid to the sexual activity through design, form, and shape.

Spanking bench / slings / chairs

There are now many pieces that are classified as sex furniture. (This is aside from the ones featured in porn movies and marketed by sex shops specializing in these furniture pieces.) One example is the spanking bench which aids in getting the better forms of spanking for the delight of your partner. (Some call them Berkeley horses.)

There are also a number of swings and slings specially-designed to make the sexual encounter more intense for its excitement (or the opposite feeling). There are the sex gliders, fisting slings, sex swings, stocks and pillories, and smother boxes. The love chair is one curious chair made of tubular steel, presumably designed to facilitate impossible-looking sex positions.

Sex furniture

One view of the sex furniture is to really enjoy the freedom in trying any position you can have in mind. They usually range from pillows and other forms (spankers, elevated bed parts, etc) used by partners to facilitate greater enhancement to the sexual positions.

Included here are the sex swings and slings. These are very popular with bondage partners in that these slings and swings help in creating “weightless” positions.

These sling and swing sets, together with the pillows, chairs and shapes are carried by almost all the shops. The inflatable sex shapes and pillows can be deflated for easy storage. The slings are designed for easy attachment to the ceiling (or doorways) and can also be easily removed if not in use. 

Install, use, and store

Some inclusions are the sex swings and slings that are quite popular with partners even among the regular sex gadget users. The big reason is that these slings and swings help in “weightless” sex positions. There is lightness, restraint, and excitement.

Almost all sex shops carry many of these swing and sling sets, pillows, chairs, and shapes. Inflatable sex shapes and pillows can be deflated anytime for easy storage. The slings are especially designed for easy attachment to the ceiling (or doorway) and are easily removable when not in use for storage.

More bondage toys

The manufacture of variants and alternates to the sex toys are still going full swing. Currently, some of the more popular toys in vogue nowadays include the wrist and ankle restraints together with the cuffs, the ropes, tapes and ties.

Hoods and muzzles, even straightjackets are used alongside sex furniture. With bondage, the sense of deprivation heightens the excitement. The combination of bondage toys and sex furniture are still in demand these days.

Cock Rings - Some Popular Types

What are cock rings Australia? Typically, it is made of rubber, silicone, nylon, leather or even metal and is worn around the base of the penis. It actually slows the flow of blood from the penile tissue that produces longer-lasting erections and a heightened orgasm.

The blood that is trapped inside the shaft by the cock ring gives you a harder, larger and more sensitive penis. This early, you need to pay attention to your penis when using a cock ring.  If you feel pain, pins and needles or numbness, discontinue use. However, the following are some of the favorite rings.

RingO's Penis Ring / Erection rings

This is the most basic among the lot. Stretchy and hypoallergenic, this silicone ring is a breeze to use. It is small and discreet and can fit over the plumpest of penis. This is best for newcomers who are afraid to start something new.

The erection rings are three specialized rings inn different sizes. The harder ring is super thick and can help a partner’s clitoris. The larger ring is for larger guys and the smallest is the most firm and creates a super tight fit for maximum pleasure.

Charged OHare / Big O

As they are cock rings Australia already is good enough. This one does double duty as a vibrator.  This incorporates the huge hit inn women’s sex toys, the rabbit. The rabbit ears with vibrating bullet gives her intense pleasure while the dual rings wrapped around the base of the shaft and balls will keep you fully erect.

The Big O multi-stage vibrating penis ring has a multispeed vibrator that can pleasure her while benefiting you. It is made of soft, supple gel that makes putting it on a total breeze. The number of vibrations it is capable of can tease, pulse, vibrate and tickle your fancy.

Ass-Gasm Cock ring Plug / Scorp3 vibrating cock ring

The ass-gasm is for straight up brothers. It is easy to control, has 4-inch by 1¼ butt plug. The plug is made of hypoallergenic silicone that’s smooth and seamless and totally waterproof. You can bring your game anywhere in the house and there is a removable vibrating bullet.

This one looks like a scorpion but it can give you 45 minutes of uninterrupted pleasure. It is a combination of anal stimulator, ball massager and clitoral massager.

Master Triad Chamber Cock and Ball Cage / Tyler

The Master Triad cage is a metal (chrome) ring that features three rings to give a secure and stimulating experience without falling off during intercourse. The largest go around the testicles, while the other two slip over the penis. The third goes around the base of the penis to make a long-lasting erection.

Tyler is good with couples or alone. It promotes stamina in men and can be used to stimulate your partner’s clitoris. It is a rechargeable cock ring when plugged in. It is made of medical grade silicone, it helps stiffen your erections and boost your sexual endurance.